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Divorce Coaching for Men
One-on-one divorce coaching for men — with someone who has been exactly where you are. Not a program. Not a framework. A man who's been through it, walking alongside you while you find your way out.
What it is
What divorce coaching actually is.
Divorce coaching is not legal advice. It's not mediation. It's not someone helping you split the furniture.
It's the part nobody else handles — what's happening inside you.
The lawyer takes care of the paperwork. The mediator takes care of the terms. Nobody takes care of the man waking up at 4am with his chest caving in, replaying everything, certain he failed at the most important thing he ever did.
That's the work I do.
I help you stop the loop. I help you process the grief instead of numbing it. I help you face your own part in what happened — clearly, without drowning in shame. And I help you rebuild into a man you actually respect on the other side.
Not the man you were before. A better one.
Why me
I've been where you are.
A week before my first book was published, my wife left me for another man.
What followed was months of despair, shame, and anger. I couldn't sleep for weeks. The stress attacked my body — I developed a stomach ulcer. My rock-bottom moment was lying on the floor of my bathroom, crying while coughing up blood, cut off from everyone by COVID. Nobody was coming to save me.
I came through it. Not with a shortcut, and not with a 12-step formula. Through the work — meditation, routine, facing the darkness in myself instead of running from it. Today I can look at the man in the mirror and say he's the best man he's ever been.
That's why I coach men through divorce. Most coaches will tell you about their certifications. I'll tell you I've been on the floor you're on right now — not a version of it, the actual thing.
Read my full story if you want to know exactly what happened.
How it works
One man at a time. In person or online.
I work with men 1:1. In-person in Los Angeles. Online for men everywhere else in the US.
Not through a curriculum. Not via a formula with a branded name and twelve steps. Whether we meet face to face or on a screen, the work is the same.
You get a guide and a mentor who walks alongside you through this — every step of the way. We meet regularly. Between sessions, you have a direct line to me. Not for admin — for the moments when things get intense and you need support before the next session.
The details — frequency, format, investment — we work out together in the discovery call. This is not a commodity service, and it is not priced like one.
Common questions
What men ask before they start.
What does a divorce coach do?
A divorce coach helps you with the part of divorce that lawyers and mediators don't touch — what's happening inside you. The grief, the identity collapse, the loop in your head that won't stop. I'm not here to sort out your settlement. I'm here to help you stop falling apart on the inside and start rebuilding into someone you actually respect.
How is divorce coaching different from therapy?
A therapist keeps clinical distance. They follow a framework. They don't share their own story. I've been through what you're going through — not a version of it, the actual thing. I'll tell you so, directly, in the first session. The men who come to me after therapy say it's the combination of lived experience and a holistic approach that finally moved them.
Do you only coach men in Los Angeles?
No. I work in person with men in Los Angeles, and online with men everywhere else in the US. The work is the same whether we're in a room together or on a screen.
How much does divorce coaching cost?
We work out the details — frequency, format, investment — together in the discovery call. This is not a commodity service and it isn't priced like one. The discovery call itself is free.
Where to start
If you're early in this and not ready to talk yet, start here:
Get in touch
Book a free discovery call.
The discovery call is a conversation. No script. No pitch.
We talk. I understand where you are and what you're dealing with. We figure out together whether working with me makes sense.
If it does — we work out the details then.
If it doesn't, for any reason — you've lost nothing but 20 minutes.